Magical Thinking - To eliminate quarrel/argument/fight, eliminate ....

To eliminate quarrel/argument/fight, eliminate little petty/unimportant thinking

Before complaining or accusing or reprimanding someone or launching a counter attack
In self-defense, ask yourself,  "Is it really important?"
In most cases, it isn't and you avoid conflict
It works in any situation in life that is apt to produce quarrels

Think big, and none of these little things can hold you back

Even a speech impairment in a talker's profession is trivial/insignificant, if the person has the big qualities.
  • In selling, the big objective is winning sales, not arguments
  • In marriage, the big objective is peace, happiness, tranquility - not winning quarrels or saying "I could have told you so,"
  • In working with employees, the big objective is developing their full potential; not making issues out of their minor errors
  • In living with neighbors, the big objective is mutual respect and friendship-not seeing if you can have their dog impounded because once in a while it barks at night
Ask always "Is it really important?" to avoid most arguments/fight

Always concentrate on important things.

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